self-pleasure
Autoeroticism
Playing-with -yourself
Flying solo
Masturbation
These are just a few terms to describe the act of self-satisfaction and you can use the one you prefer or make your own!
Masturbation is commonly connected to puberty and the discovery of the sexual body. Masturbation is somehow still a taboo, something that an adult within a relationship(s) doesn’t need to do.
Yet it is good to keep in mind that the longest sexual relationship you will have is the one with yourself and that
masturbation is a healthy practice that improves the state of your body and your mind.
Your age and your relationship status have nothing to do with solo practicing as long as you enjoy doing it! Going solo you are not cheating on your partner(s).
Studies show that a sexually active person is healthier and that masturbation could, in some cases, even prolong life expectancy! Surely it makes the time given to us more enjoyable and pleasurable!
Here are some tips to begin on your path towards self-satisfaction:
Give yourself permission to feel pleasure, you are worth it. The best way to increase your pleasure is to explore your own sexual potential. Pleasure rarely breaks out on its own and it just doesn’t come only by waiting for the right moment and the suitable partner. Pleasure arises from our will and awareness of what we like or dislike. You can begin by thinking about what brings you pleasure? What do you dislike?
Space for your fantasies. The so-called “shameful” fantasies are more common than you think! People can get aroused by things that are generally perceived as scary, dirty, or wrong, being so it’s important to remember that there is a difference between fantasies and making them happen. Fantasies are exclusively yours and you are allowed to enjoy them!
Be sure to take care of your whole body, stop at where you get pleasure. Take time for yourself and be merciful.
Pleasure requires slowing down. If pleasure does not arise immediately, it does not mean that it won’t not arise at all!
Try different positions and different ways to touch yourself.
Sex toys are welcome, remember to be curious!
THE SWITCH
Plan time to enjoy yourself, and explore your pleasure, and your body. Have great sex with yourself. Masturbation can be much more than sexual relief.
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